Gentle Measures in the Management and Training of the Young Or, the Principles on Which a Firm Parental Authority May Be Established and Maintained, Without Violence or Anger, and the Right Development of the Moral and Mental Capacities Be Promoted by Methods in Harmony with the Structure and the Characteristics of the Juvenile Mind
CONTENTS. CHAPTER I. THREE MODES OF MANAGEMENT CHAPTER II. WHAT ARE GENTLE MEASURES? CHAPTER III. THERE MUST BE AUTHORITY CHAPTER IV. GENTLE PUNISHMENT OF DISOBEDIENCE CHAPTER V. THE PHILOSOPHY OF PUNISHMENT CHAPTER VI. REWARDING OBEDIENCE CHAPTER VII. THE ART OF TRAINING CHAPTER VIII. METHODS EXEMPLIFIED CHAPTER IX. DELLA AND THE DOLLS CHAPTER X. SYMPATHY:--I. THE CHILD WITH THE PARENT
The reputation of a young woman is of the most delicate texture.
It requires not overt acts of actual wickedness to tarnish its
brightness, and cast suspicion on its purity. Indiscreet language,
careless deportment, a want of discrimination in regard to
associates, even when no evil is done, or intended, will often
bring into question her character, greatly to her injury. Many are
the instances where a single word, spoken at random, in the giddy
thoughtlessness of youthful vivacity, without the slightest
thought of wrong, has cast a shadow upon the character of a young
woman which it required years to efface. How important that every
word uttered, and every deed performed, should be maturely weighed.
A discreet lady will not only be careful to avoid evil itself,
but will studiously refrain from everything which has even the
appearance of evil.
"Whatever dims thy sense of truth,
Or stains thy purity,
Though light as breath of summer air,
Count it as sin to thee."
Young women frequently err in their understanding of what it is that
gives them a good name, and imparts their chief attraction. Many
seem to imagine that good looks, a gay attire, in the extreme of
fashion, and a few showy attainments, constitute everything
essential to make them interesting and attractive, and to establish
a high reputation in the estimation of the other sex. Hence they
CONTENTS. CHAPTER I. THREE MODES OF MANAGEMENT CHAPTER II. WHAT ARE GENTLE MEASURES? CHAPTER III. THERE MUST BE AUTHORITY CHAPTER IV. GENTLE PUNISHMENT OF DISOBEDIENCE CHAPTER V. THE PHILOSOPHY OF PUNISHMENT CHAPTER VI. REWARDING OBEDIENCE CHAPTER VII. THE ART OF TRAINING CHAPTER VIII. METHODS EXEMPLIFIED CHAPTER IX. DELLA AND THE DOLLS CHAPTER X. SYMPATHY:--I. THE CHILD WITH THE PARENT